I just want to know why other people get a 2 day ban and I get a 1 month ban

Apparently it was because you removed a large amount of stone brick in the ocean? It was because it were many blocks.

I'll check with staff later for you, it's an annoying semiparadoxal rule where it's punishable for 1 month to build in someone else's town without permission, but it's also punishable for 1 month to remove the unwanted building. Been seeing a lot of these cases recently.

 ok thanks

plus it never said anywhere that you couldn't remove blocks from your town 

It counts as someone elses build even if it is your town. And destroying someone elses build is griefing

oh, right

Hi iballistic, I've unbanned you now. You've been banned for long enough