Will I get banned on dmu if it says it is incompatible it says ,

Warning, optfine fast render is incompatible with this mod , recommended that it is disabled 

I mean will it ban me because it thinks it’s something else like an automatic ban because it’s not allowed ? I’m really not sure 

I have sildurs vibrant shaders v1.22 high 

No you will not get banned, it just means that some of the dalek mod features might not work properly like boti.

You need to turn of BOTI - SOTI in client side and TARDIS settings.